Thursday, June 9, 2011

Hmm...appreciate what we have for all this tyme being and do appreciate that we have a great and fabulous family to rely on

   Me and Luke 
 By: Audrey O Hearn
. . . I asked if I could hold him for a little while. The young nurse had to go ask one of the hammer-faced ones, and she had to look at me real hard, but finally they decided between them that I wasn't going to hurt the kid.
They took me into the nursery office and made me put on a white jacket backwards and tied a piece of cotton around my mouth and nose. And then the young one brought my son out and put him in my arms, showing me how to support his head, which was all floppy, and tucking the rest of him into my spread-out palm so he was tight against my chest.
He looked me straight in the eye, and all of a sudden I knew it was him and me against all the nurses, parents, teachers - you name them. And I remembered the morning I woke up and my father was gone.
After I gave him back, I went down the hall to Lorene to find out more about this adoption business. I wasn't going to hand this great kid over to some losers who maybe wouldn't even look after him right.
However, Matt Wilson's girlfriend wants to give up the baby, get on with her life,"have some fun. Buy some new clothes." Lorene's mother, who completely blames Matt for her daughter's pregnancy and the gossip it has provided for neighbours, is completely hostile to him and equally adamant that the baby be adopted. After their conversation, Matt heads toward the nursery, ostensibly to return baby Luke after Lorene feeds him. But, Matt's misgivings about his son's future overwhelm him, and instead of taking the baby back, he walks towards the elevator and leaves the hospital with Luke nestled in his jacket.         
     At age seventeen, Matt does not have great prospects: he's a high-school drop-out, living in a boarding house on the income from casual jobs (and he's currently without one); his mother has remarried and moved to California; and his high-school buddies have pretty much forgotten him. His only other relative is his grandmother who has retired to her cottage on Georgian Bay. Leaving Lorene a note stating, "I have Luke with me. I'll take good care of him," Matt catches a bus heading north to Midvale, a town in cottage country. The soggy jacket resulting from Luke's soaking his dad's improvised diapers make Matt realize just how little he knows about the care and feeding of infants, and he's uncertain of how his grandmother will react when he arrives with Luke.
     Gram is clearly a no-nonsense sort of lady, and she takes charge of the situation very quickly. But, she also makes it clear to Matt that he must shoulder his share of the responsibility, and surprisingly, he eases into it remarkably well, even facing the three o'clock feedings with his "little buddy." He finds a job and explores the possibility of a new relationship - although he is disappointed when his potential girlfriend expresses total disinterest in children. Over time, with Luke and Gram, Matt settles into a routine of family life, although this family of an old lady, a baby and a teenager is clearly unconventional. But a fire at the abandoned cottage next door to Gram and investigations into Luke's situation create a real crisis for the family.

     Remarkably, things work out for Matt: he finds a job and a future working at the butcher shop in Midvale, makes some new friends, and finally, obtains legal custody of the "little guy" who has won his heart. He has dreams for his son's future, even though, like any parent, he worries about having done the right thing for the child. As for Lorene, one day, she and a new boyfriend drive out to visit Matt and Luke. The visit is awkward and ends with her assurance that she'll be back, but Matt has his doubts. With those doubts, he understands how their past relationship has changed both of them, and then realizes that in some way or another, Lorene will always be a part of his present life with Luke.
     Young adult literature is full of stories about pregnant teens, but the protagonists are invariably female (and set in American high schools - I liked the Canadian context). Me and Luke is unusual, not only for telling the story from the viewpoint of a teen father, but in depicting, in a very realistic and unsentimental way, the bond that develops between Matt and Luke and how it catches the young father by surprise. Nor does the book minimize the difficulty of raising a child without support, both emotional and financial. But readers cannot help but admire Matt for refusing to back down from the challenge that faces him. It's not a challenge that every young man could face and win, but Matt knows that this is his destiny. At the custody hearing, he states: 
"I know I'm an ordinary guy. It might turn out that the only thing I ever do to make my mark, is to stand by Luke. For the rest, I think I've found out that I do need other people and I'll be grateful for any help I can get if I keep Luke. I'll do my best by him." 
     Tough as it may be, we know that he will. A great story, with appeal both for male and female readers. Me and Luke is a worthwhile addition to high school library collections and a useful supplemental work for high school Family Studies classes. Amazingly, this novel is almost two decades old, but it could have been written this year. Although teens seem more likely to keep their children, the situation is no easier for them than it was in 1987 when the book was first written.

Highly Recommended.
Joanne Peters is a teacher-librarian at Kelvin High School in Winnipeg, MB.
(copyright from someone`s blog..better  say sorry)

This is a real life story that I would like readers of my blog to read  and take as much as possible lessons from it. I don`t know why!!! But, it`s a great job if u all done with it..It`s awesome if u all have chance to watch the movie adappted from this story.It make sense and make u understand more about ur family,how u gonna handle it.Hmm... for all GIRLs (erkk..especially my SIS)-don`t just look at the ketampanan the main character (Matt) but grab the attention what is the story all about .Yeah..Be a great backbone to ur family .

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

I start cherish my life with doa..

DOA can give us strength to face difficulties when us in a desperate or sad. When we wants the helps,we will DOA to Allah SWT for guidance.While we DOA,we must need to show the seriousness also sincerity inquired to Allah SWT so that our DOA will be answered. DOA also for peace ,for healing and so on.When we DOA,it may come as the courage to face what we have been fearing.

We are not alone. Allah SWT always in our side for guide us to right path.Beside that,when we praying we can closer to Allah SWT and Allah SWT will protect us for any dangerous will come neared us.We can get advantaged when we DOA such as our hearts begin to feel compassion we never knew we had while we praying. So let's we DOA for our healthy also for everyone.

Prayer is a weapon of the believers.We never can get disadvantaged if we DOA to Allah SWT.Allah SWT can seeing,hearing what we feel and what we want. Hope that our praying will be answering by Allah SWT. InsyaAllah

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

keep stay with us...

statement: lelaki budiman takkan masuk dalam koc wanita.
Seorang wanita telah diganggu ketenteramannya dan khalifah Umar Abd Aziz menghantar seangkatan tentera untuk melindunginya.
p/s: Kembalikanlah zaman khalifah islam. Pemerintahan yang adil. Are you with us in this chosen road?

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Mendongak ke langit...

Dawud Wharnsby Ali :: The Prophet

Mohamed Allaihisalaam
Sat quietly in the evening.
His companion asked,
�Oh beautiful man,
Why do you sit here grieving?�

My ummah, those who follow me,
The future of their faith
Makes me worry till I cry.
My brothers and sisters in Islam
Will they be strong and carry on after I die.

The Prophet stood silently and prayed,
His beard becoming wet as he cried for all his fears.
Oh Allah! Don�t let this nation fade,
As he pleaded through the night the earth around him filled with tears.

My ummah, those who follow me,
The future of their faith
Makes me worry till I cry.
My brothers and sisters in Islam
Will they be strong and carry on after I die.

La la la la
La la la la la
La la la la la
La la la ah
La la la la
La la la la la
La la la la la
La la la ah

A stillness fell over the land,
Companions gathered near to where the Prophet laid.
As Aysha his wife held tight to his hand,
The Prophet spoke again before he passed away.

My ummah, those who follow me,
The future of their faith
Makes me worry till I cry.
My brothers and sisters in Islam
Will they be strong and carry on after I die.

My ummah, those who follow me,
The future of their faith
Makes me worry till I cry.
My brothers and sisters in Islam
Will they be strong and carry on after I die.

Believers, brothers and sisters in Islam,
Will we be strong and carry on until we die?

Saturday, June 4, 2011

Walaweyyy..konsisten la...

Kita selalu tanya mcm mn nak kejar redha Allah 2.. dah terlambat ke?
Cuma kuncinya ada disini....=)
Dimana kesungguhan kita? Dimana kemahuan kita??

Himmah(semangat) punya 3 rukun yang cukup cantik.
1-Iradah(keinginan) yang kuat
2-Respon Cepat pada benda-benda yang ada
3-Istiqomah dengan perubahan/peningkatan yang cuba dilakukan.
mari kejar sama2.. =):

Jangan Menyerah Wahai Awanis!!!!!!

When the time i decide to update my blog , i`m in dilemma whether i make it just only for "show off" or it come from deep bottom of my heart . Yeah..
I realise this is one way..
this is right way...
where i can start tarbiyah people...
give all the knowledge i have..
even this is the busiest, peak time of my life , i need to sacrifice 24 hours of my time just for allah..
i have the responsibility that i`ve already choose...
pursuing what Muhammad wants for his ummah....
my daily activities :
-keep up to date with the da`wah....
-keep-up-to date with the usrah...
-improves iman n takwa...
that`s my full time job right now...
-finish up reading all the chapters in muntalaq,
-raheeq al-makhtum...
-zikrullah everyday..
i really hope allah may see the changes, give bless on what i did, help to bring the light along my path....


(Petikan dari nukilan Kak Ada...sorry..tapi saya suka sangat)


Betapa hari ini apa yang kudapat adalah semata-mata KURNIAAN dari-Mu. Andai dihitung nilai usahaku, mungkin tidak layak aku mendapat nikmat sebanyak ini. Aku pernah di’reject’ semua universiti, tapi Engkau menghadiahkan ‘offer’ universiti ini pada malam itu.

Aku menangis lepas PMR, rase macam dah susah nak dapat A satu paper, tapi Engkau menghadiahkan hadiah yang tak pernah aku sangka akan dapat.

Belum dikira sudah berapa kali Engkau selamatkan aku di saat aku berjalan seorang pulang ke rumah, dalam keadaan takut jalan sorang-sorang. Berapa kali Engkau beri aku ketenangan saat aku sedih, takut, rasa macam takde harapan.

Berapa kali Engkau ilhamkan banyak perkara, dalam exam, dalam menyelesaikan masalah, bagi jalan keluar

Sesat, ada orang tolong guide. Takde duit, ade kawan tolong. Nangis, ade orang pujuk.

Nikmat ukhuwah yang dirasakan hari ini. Nikmat orang lain menyayangi kita, doakan kita.

Nikmat boleh makan, minum, bercakap, melihat.

Allah, malu. Malu sangat nak mintak lagi kerana kami sebenarnya jarang sangat bersyukur. Kami suka melihat pada apa yang tiada, melupakan apa yang kami ada. Tapi Allah, kami menebalkan muka, dengan air mata yang menjadi saksi. Kami lemah, Kami memerlukan-Mu, memerlukan bantuan-Mu saat ini.

Kabulkanlah permintaan kami, doa kami, doa sahabat-sahabat kami…Berilah yang terbaik buat kami, berilah kami hati yang redha untuk menerima segala ketentuan-Mu.

“Setiap bencana yang menimpa di bumi dan yang menimpa dirimu sendiri, semuanya telah tertulis dalam kitab (Lauh Mahfuz) sebelum Kami mewujudkannya. Sungguh, yang demikian itu mudah bagi Allah. Agar kamu tidak bersedih hati terhadap apa yang luput dari kamu, dan tidak pula terlalu gembira terhadap apa yang diberikan-Nya kepadamu. Dan Allah tidak menyukai orang yang sombong dan membanggakan diri.”(Al-Hadiid:22&23)

Sebenarnya kagum dengan dia. Besar sungguh ujian yang diterima-Nya. Tapi dia mengucap “Alhamdulillah ‘ala kulli haal

“Dan (ingatlah) ketika Tuhanmu memaklumkan, “Sesungguhnya jika kamu bersyukur, nescaya Aku akan menambah (nikmat) kepadamu, tetapi jika kamu mengingkari (nikmat-Ku), maka pasti azab-Ku sangat berat.”(Ibraahiim:7)

Alhamdulillah, Allah masih beri peluang untuk kita study. Insya Allah, jom Tera Giga kan usaha kita. Moga Allah bantu kita di sepanjang perjalanan. Allah, mudahkan urusan kami. Insha Allah, akan kami pulangkan nikmat yang telah Engkau berikan ini…

p/s:Jika saya lupa, ingatkan saya ye~

Yang lemah lagi dhaif,

Ada, Aberdeen

Friday, June 3, 2011

Jom Jadi Wanita Gorgeous~

Jom Start Daripada Bulu Kening~

Bulu Kening:
Menurut Bukhari, "Rasulullah melaknat perempuan yang mencukur atau menipiskan bulu kening atau meminta supaya dicukurkan bulu kening". (Hadis Riwayat Abu Daud Fi Fathil Bari)

Kaki (tumit kaki):
"Dan janganlah mereka (perempuan) membentakkan kaki (atau mengangkatnya) agar diketahui perhiasan yang mereka sembunyikan". (Surah An-Nur: 31)

“Membentakkan kaki” dimaksudkan sebagai:
• menampakkan kaki (kaki, betis, dan seumpamanya)
• menghayunkan atau melenggokkan badan mengikut hentakkan kaki.

"Siapa sahaja wanita yang memakai wangi-wangian kemudian melewati suatu kaum supaya mereka itu mencium baunya (untuk menarik perhatian), maka wanita itu telah dianggap melakukan zina dan tiap-tiap mata ada zina”. (Hadis Riwayat Nasai’, Ibn Khuzaimah dan ibnu Hibban)

"Hendaklah mereka (perempuan) melabuhkan kain tudung hingga menutupi dada-dada mereka”. (An-Nur : 31), “Hai Nabi, katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anakmu dan isteri-isteri orang mukmin: Hendaklah mereka menghulurkan (melabuhkan) jilbabnya (tudung kepala yang labuh menutupi dada) ke tubuh mereka. Yang demikian itu supaya mereka lebih mudah dikenal dan tidak diganggu. Dan ALLAH adalah Maha Pengampun Lagi Maha Penyayang.” (Surah al-Ahzaab: 59)

"Rasullulah melaknat perempuan yang mengikir gigi atau meminta supaya dikikirkan giginya”. (Riwayat At-Thabrani),
"Dilaknat perempuan yang menjarangkan giginya supaya menjadi cantik, yang merubah ciptaan Allah". (Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

Adab Bertudung, dan Batasan Bergaya:
“Dan hendaklah kamu tetap dirumahmu dan janganlah kamu berhias serta bertingkah laku seperti orang-orang jahiliyah terdahulu…” (Surah al-Ahzaab: 33)

Berdasarkan ayat 33 dari surah al-Ahzaab, Imam Mujahid berkata,

“Suatu ketika dahulu (sebelum kedatangan Islam), golongan wanita jahiliyyah berjalan di hadapan lelaki (tanpa segan silu). Imam Qatada pula berkata, “Suatu ketika dahulu (sebelum kedatangan Islam), kaum wanita (jahiliyyah) berjalan di hadapan lelaki dengan gaya yang menghairahkan. Imam Muqatil Hayyan pula berkata: ayat ini diturunkan apabila kaum wanita menutup kepala mereka dengan kain tudung tetapi masih mendedahkan leher, rantai dan subang mereka”.

“Hai Nabi, katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anakmu dan isteri-isteri orang mukmin: Hendaklah mereka menghulurkan (melabuhkan) jilbabnya (tudung kepala yang labuh menutupi dada atau pakaian labuh) ke tubuh mereka. (Surah al-Ahzaab: 59)

“Dan hendaklah mereka menutup kain kudung sehingga labuh ke dada-dada mereka dan jangan menampakkan perhiasan kecuali kepada suami mereka, ayah mereka, ayah suami mereka, putera-putera mereka, putera-putera suami mereka, saudara-saudara lelaki mereka, putera-putera saudara lelaki mereka, putera-putera saudara perempuan mereka, wanita-wanita mereka, budak-budak yang mereka miliki, pelayan-pelayan lelaki yang tidak mempunyai keinginan terhadap wanita, atau anak-anak yang belum mengerti berkenaan aurat wanita.” (Surah an-Nuur: 31)

Berdasarkan ayat 31, surah an-Nuur, Abdullah ibn Abbas, Ibn Omar, Atha, Ikramah dan lain-lainnya berpendapat: “Seseorang wanita Islam hanya boleh mendedahkan wajah, dua tapak tangan dan cincinnya di hadapan lelaki yang bukan mahrimnya.” (As-Syeikh said Hawa di dalam kitabnya Al-Asas fit Tafsir)
Memakai Pakaian Yang Jarang (nipis) dan Mengghairahkan (Yang ketat, Singkat dan seumpanya.

Asma Binti Abu Bakar telah menemui Rasullulah dengan memakai pakaian yang tipis. Sabda Rasullulah: Wahai Asma! Sesungguhnya seorang gadis yang telah berhaid tidak boleh baginya menzahirkan anggota badan kecuali pergelangan tangan dan wajah saja." (Riwayat Muslim dan Bukhari), "Sesungguhnya sebilangan ahli neraka ialah perempuan-perempuan yang berpakaian tapi telanjang (seolah-olah tidak berpakaian) yang condong pada maksiat dan menarik orang lain untuk melakukan maksiat. Mereka tidak akan masuk syurga dan tidak akan mencium baunya." (Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

Bersentuhan Dengan Lelaki (Bukan Muhrim):
"Sesungguhnya kepala yang ditusuk dengan besi itu lebih baik daripada menyentuh kaum yang bukan sejenis yang tidak halal baginya" (Hadis Riwayat At Tabrani dan Baihaqi)

"Janganlah perempuan-perempuan itu terlalu lunak dalam berbicara sehingga berkeinginan (menghairahkan) orang yang ada perasaan dalam hatinya, tetapi ucapkanlah perkataan-perkataan yang baik". (Surah Al Ahzab : 32)

Adab Memandang (Kepada Bukan Muhrim):
"Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan mukmin (yang beriman), hendaklah mereka menundukkan sebahagian dari pandangannya". (An Nur: 31), Sabda Nabi SAW, "Jangan sampai pandangan yang satu mengikuti pandangan lainnya. Kamu hanya boleh pandangan yang pertama, pandangan seterusnya tidak dibenarkan". (Hadis Riwayat Ahmad, Abu Daud dan Tirmidzi)

"Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan-perempuan mukmin, hendaklah mereka menundukkan pandangan mereka dan menjaga kemaluan mereka (tidak berzina atau mendekati zina)". (Surah an Nur: 31),
"Apabila seorang perempuan itu sembahyang lima waktu, puasa di bulan Ramadhan, menjaga kemaluannya (tidak berzina atau mendekati zina) dan menta'ati suaminya, maka masuklah ia ke dalam syurga daripada pintu-pintu yang ia kehendakinya" (Hadis Riwayat Al-Bazzar),
"Tiada seorang perempuan pun yang membuka pakaiannya bukan dirumah suaminya, melainkan dia telah membinasakan tabir antaranya dengan Allah". (Hadis Riwayat Imam Tirmidzi, Abu Daud dan Ibn Majah)

"Wahai anakku Fatimah! Adapun perempuan-perempuan yang akandigantung rambutnya hingga mendidih otaknya dalam neraka adalah mereka itu di dunia tidak mahu menutup rambutnya daripada dilihat oleh lelaki yang bukan mahramnya." (Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim), “Dan hendaklah mereka menutupkan kain tudung…” (Surah an-Nuur: 31)

Senarai Ringkas Lelaki Yang Mahram Bagi Perempuan:
“…Ayah mereka, ayah suami mereka (ayah mertua), putera-putera mereka (anak), putera-putera suami mereka (anak suami), saudara-saudara lelaki mereka (adik-beradik lelaki), putera-putera saudara lelaki mereka (anak saudara), putera-putera (anak) saudara perempuan (adik-beradik perempuan) mereka, wanita-wanita mereka, budak-budak yang mereka miliki, pelayan-pelayan lelaki yang tidak mempunyai keinginan terhadap wanita, atau anak-anak yang belum mengerti berkenaan aurat wanita.” (Surah an-Nuur: 31)

Muhasabah Diri:

“Dunia ini adalah perhiasan dan sebaik-baik perhiasan adalah wanita yang solehah”. (Hadis Riwayat Muslim)

“Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Taatilah ALLAH dan taatilah Rasulullah dan juga Ulil Amri (orang-orang yang berkuasa dan para pemimpin yang beriman) dari kalangan kamu! Kemudian jika kamu berselisihan dalam sesuatu perkara, maka hendaklah kamu mengembalikannya kepada ALLAH (Kitab al-Qur’an) dan Rasulullah (as-Sunnah dan Hadis) jika kamu benar-benar beriman kepada ALLAH dan hari akhirat! Yang demikian adalah kesudahan yang terbaik”. (Surah an-Nisa’: 59)

“Wanita yang ikhlas dalam menjaga auratnya mengikut syariat adalah umpama sebiji mutiara yang tidak ternilai harganya dari lautan dalam yang sentiasa tersimpan di dalam tiramnya”

Hiasilah Dirimu Hanya Untuk Suamimu Sahaja~..
InsyAllah..Syurgalah Tempatmu~

sebenarnya mudah aje nak update blog...ak jer yang penakuttt

kurniakanlah ak kekuatan mengahdapi semua ini...
awanis jagan givin up..
pray to allah
for your sucess...
great job for u as da`i..
jgan cuba lari dari ketentaunnya..
ambil enteng dengan tujuan hidup anda
perbaiki diri sebagai seorang khalifah dan beribadat kepadanya sebagai seorang hamba....